Dealing with Fear
Not all players gain confidence easily. They have obstacles in their way, like fear of the unknown or fear of a particular game situation or pitcher. The most common fear though is fear of failure. This plagues many players because girls’ softball is a game of failure. Successful hitters make outs 60-70% of the time. Fear of failure is real, but it does not give the hitter correct information.
Skip Bertman, famous collegiate coach, used the acronym False Evidence Appearing Real, when he addressed fear with his teams. He explains that fear tells lies and distorts what is real and what is imagined. This distortion causes the hitter’s body to react in a counterproductive way. Fear of failure initiates a rapid heartbeat, an irregular breathing pattern, or perspiration. It tightens the body and clutters a hitter’s mind. The hitter needs to look at the fear and identify where it is originating. Then defeat it by replacing the false information with real, positive thoughts and self-talk that can lead to success.
The first step in dealing with fear is to acknowledge it and derive its source. Fear originates from many aspects of the game. From striking out, to getting hit by a pitch, to an off-field relationship. It is present and real. A hitter must consider the worst-case scenario that can happen because of this fear. Realizing that that scenario is fixable and not catastrophic, the hitter decides on preventive measures and takes action. Acknowledgement, understanding the source, examining the worst possibilities, and taking action effectively allows the hitter to master her fears.
Excellent hitting instructors feel that helping hitters to identify their fears and assisting in relieving them is one of their greatest accomplishments. It is a quality that sets them apart. Coaches, you can do the same thing for your players!
Fear and nervousness have a distinct energy. Coach Bertman describes a nervous energy, butterflies, or adrenalin rush before the big game as your body trying to take your performance to a higher level. Understanding that the very best athletes in the world also deal with this type of energy and that they manage to perform at their best is important information for all athletes.
Edwin Moses, the gold medal-winning Olympic hurdler, said he felt as though he was being led to his execution before an important race. Dennis Eckersley was known to have an upset stomach and nausea before closing a game from the bullpen for the Oakland Athletics. He turned the energy of fear into positive situations throughout his career and managed to win a Cy Young Award and be named MVP of the American League.
The realization that fear and nervousness can lead to success is critical to successful athletic performance. Great athletes turn fear into anger and attack it. They use the energy from fear to defeat their opponents, allowing them to play at a higher level.